What is Meditation?

What is meditation and how do we define meditation? Meditation is the art of cultivating awareness and insight. It can be used as a practical tool to transform destructive emotional patterns, to discover positive qualities like wisdom and compassion, and to access the mind’s fundamental nature of pure awareness.

Awareness: The Essence of Meditation

As Mingyur Rinpoche often says, awareness is the essence of meditation. What he means is that practicing meditation is a process of exploring the heart and mind, of fully experiencing the richness of awareness itself. This implies that meditation is not meant to eliminate the things we don’t like about ourselves, or even to become “better” people. Meditation helps us to see that we are already whole and complete. It is a practical tool that enables us to get in touch with our true nature.

The path of meditation unfolds in two stages: We begin by recognizing that the nature of awareness is fundamentally good and pure, and that it is the source of true and lasting happiness. Once we have directly experienced the basic goodness of awareness, the path of meditation then consists of nurturing this recognition and allowing the qualities of awareness to manifest fully.

The path of meditation can thus be summed up in these two aspects: recognizing our true nature and nurturing this recognition until it becomes a living experience throughout our lives.

Making Friends with Difficult Emotions

When we encounter challenging situations and painful emotions, we typically respond one of two ways: In the first case, we identify with our feeling and believe what it tells us. Mingyur Rinpoche calls this the “Yes, Sir!” response. In the second case, we resist the emotion and try to push it away, and perhaps even repress it to the point where it fades from our conscious experience. This is what Rinpoche calls the “Hey, get out!” response. Both of these responses keep us locked in a cycle of dissatisfaction and suffering.

Meditation gives us a third option, in which we use painful feelings as supports for awareness. This approach undermines the resistance we often feel toward difficult feelings. At first, it may feel like there is a bit of space between you and the emotion, or like you are learning to be with the emotion rather than becoming the emotion. This may not feel all that pleasant at the beginning, but eventually we can even learn to embrace and appreciate these feelings as natural expressions of awareness.

Everyday Life as Meditation Practice

In the same way that we can use painful feelings and emotions as support for awareness, we can also use our everyday experiences, even the most mundane details of our lives, as opportunities to deepen our practice. Everything that manifests in the present moment can be used as a support for awareness. We can meditate with the sound of a ringing phone, with the sensations of our body as we sit at our desk or walk down the street, and with all the imagery that displays itself as we go about our day. The beauty of this practice is that nothing is an obstacle to meditation. You can even bring awareness to feelings of drowsiness and agitation. Eventually, everything will become meditation and you will feel completely at home in the present moment.

The Joy of Living

Joy is not the absence of suffering, the absence of challenges, or the absence of anything else. Living with joy means that we develop a sense of inner well-being that allows us to embrace whatever the present moment offers. Meditation instills in us a genuine sense of curiosity and wonder, even toward the mundane and challenging details of our existence. The joy of living is to live with confidence, lightness, and humor, with the knowledge that all our thoughts and emotions are nothing more than ripples on the surface of awareness.

Why Meditate?

Where can we find true happiness? In the modern world, we are surrounded by unparalleled levels of material wealth and comfort, yet our sophisticated exterior often masks feelings of dissatisfaction, anxiety, and depression. Ironically, it often seems that the more “progress” we see in the world around us, the less content we are with our lives. So what are the benefits of meditation and why should we meditate?

One of the primary benefits of meditation is that it shows us that true happiness is found within. The feelings of contentment and wholeness that we often seek outside ourselves are actually part of our basic nature. Unfortunately, we have become so habituated to looking outside of ourselves for happiness that we often do not know how to discover this “inner wealth.” Though we all have the potential to find a deep and lasting happiness that does not depend on external circumstances, simply hearing that we already have what we need to be happy is not enough; we need practical methods to uncover our true nature, practices that will enable us to move beyond the cultural conditioning that perpetually tells us that we are incomplete.

Another one of the primary benefits of meditation is that the practice of meditation awakens us to the joy of the present moment. By cultivating attention and awareness, even challenging situations like chronic pain, destructive thought patterns, and difficult emotions can be transformed into sources of inner peace and joy. This inner transformation does not require us to retreat from the world. On the contrary, daily life is filled with endless opportunities to use the practice of mindfulness to find the preciousness of every moment. Meditation is not meant to remove us from the world, but to open our hearts and minds to the beauty of what we already have.

For centuries, various forms of meditation have been taught and practiced in virtually all of the world’s religions. While there are important differences between the techniques found in each tradition, they share the belief that true happiness cannot be found in the shifting conditions of the external world, but rather by turning inward and exploring the landscape of the heart and mind.

Scientific Evidence of the Benefits of Meditation

In recent years, meditation has also received a great deal of attention from the scientific community. Researchers from Harvard, MIT, the University of Wisconsin, The Center for Healthy Minds and many other renowned institutions have explored the effects of meditation on everything from high blood pressure to peak states of consciousness. Their research has shown not only the profound effects that meditation can have on the brains of advanced meditators, but also how practicing meditation for only a few minutes a day can create a dramatic increase in the parts of the brain associated with happiness and wellbeing. Meditation has also been shown to boost the body’s immune system, to improve the brain’s capacity to concentrate for extended periods of time, and to be an effective treatment for many psychological disorders.

Tergar Meditation Training

Tergar’s meditation training begins with the Joy of Living, a path of meditation that anyone can follow, regardless of religious or cultural orientation. The Joy of Living is a step-by-step training in meditation that helps us to calm the mind, open the heart, and develop wisdom.

If you are new to meditation, we recommend starting with our Anytime Anywhere Meditation training, which offers the essence of the Joy of Living in a condensed and approachable way that can easily fit a busy schedule.

Path of Liberation

The Path of Liberation offers an experiential path of meditation for those inspired to follow the Buddhist teachings of Mahamudra as their spiritual path. It consists of five levels that help us explore and realize the nature of mind. This realization leads to a profound shift in consciousness. We no longer view ourselves through the distorting lens of our thoughts and beliefs. Instead, we learn to access the pure awareness that underlies all experience.

To support Joy of Living and the Path of Liberation students, we provide a wealth of opportunities to learn and practice meditation, including online and in-person teachings by Mingyur Rinpoche, self-paced online courses, community-led workshops, guidance from Tergar instructors and facilitators, as well as community support. 

FAQ


  • Meditation can be practiced by anyone. The practice of meditation is a process of turning inward to learn about the workings of the mind and how thoughts and emotions shape perception. It does not require one to believe any particular religious doctrine, though many of the world's greatest sages and saints have used meditation as a way to deepen their understanding and experience of their own faith. Currently, meditation is taught and practiced in healthcare settings to relieve stress and cope with chronic pain; in the corporate world to develop authentic, value-based leadership; and in the educational system to help students concentrate and center themselves.


  • Meditation has many benefits. In a general sense, meditation allows us to access the mind's innate qualities of peace and serenity. Eventually, these experiences become a living reality and our happiness is no longer dependent on the fluctuating conditions of the world around us. Meditation can also be used to cultivate certain qualities, such as compassion or wisdom, and also to address specific problems, such as destructive emotional patterns, chronic illness, and challenging relationship issues. The point of meditation is not to escape such situations, but rather to see that everything we experience can be transformed into a source of joy through the practice of meditation.

  • There is no one approach to meditation that works for everyone. The “best” approach is one that works best for you – one that engages you and inspires you to become familiar with the workings of your mind and heart.

    At Tergar we lay out a clear pathway of teachings, so you have a roadmap to follow, and we emphasize an experiential style so that you are not just learning about meditation techniques but practicing them. As well, we believe in the importance of community and its power to inspire us to practice.

    We recommend that students new to meditation begin with the Anytime Anywhere Meditation (AAM) program. The AAM captures the essence of meditation practice in a simple, easy-to-apply approach that focuses on the transformative effects of meditation. Through a focus on fundamentals, the AAM course provides participants with an easily understood journey to well-being. Accessible to people of all cultures and faiths, AAM makes meditation practice approachable and effective.

    By the end of this workshop, you will:

    1. recognize that meditation is a tool for self-discovery, and how awareness, love and compassion, and wisdom are innate qualities within yourself

    2. discover how applying short periods of meditation in daily life builds the foundation of a daily meditation practice

    3. learn to integrate meditation into your busy life by using challenges, distraction, and judgment as part of the practice

    4. begin to develop a personal meditation practice that works with your unique interests, skills, and time

    5. experiment with utilizing anything as a support for meditation and gain a deeper understanding of how meditation can support greater well-being

    After completing the AAM, the next step is the Joy of Living program, a series of three workshops in which Mingyur Rinpoche presents practical advice on how we can use meditation to calm our minds, open our hearts, and develop insight into the true nature of reality. The Joy of Living teachings are foundational for all of Mingyur Rinpoche’s teachings.

    Additionally, as you begin to meditate, we recommend reading Rinpoche’s The Joy of Living, a New York Times bestseller. You may also like to view our Top Eleven Books for Beginning Meditators and Best Buddhist Books for beginners, or visit our TLC library, which is full of recommended books, downloadable audio files, videos, and more. You can also find valuable content on the Mingyur Rinpoche and Tergar Meditation Community YouTube channels, and keep up with our latest offerings on the Tergar Instagram and Facebook channels. 

    Many students also join local Practice Groups to practice in a supportive community. The groups do not teach the Joy of Living teachings but are a place of practice. The importance of practicing with others – being inspired, encouraging each other and sharing experiences along the path –  cannot be underscored enough.

    If you feel drawn to our approach, you’re in the right place! If you have questions, feel free to contact a community leader or email us via our contact page. We’d be happy to tell you more about our approach to meditation and help you get started in practice.


  • The ultimate goal of meditation practice is to bring awareness to every moment of one's life, not just the time one spends in a formal meditation session. That said, setting aside time each day to cultivate awareness is an indispensable part of the process. Most people find that the more time they devote to meditation "on the cushion," the easier it is to bring awareness to their experiences "off the cushion."

  • When beginning a daily meditation practice, it is important to meditate in short, frequent sessions. Twenty minutes a day, practiced over one or two sessions, is a good general guideline for beginning meditators. It is important to note, however, that you can and should practice anytime, anywhere. Once you know the key points of meditation, you will be able to use any experience or activity as a way to practice sustaining meditative awareness.


  • Meditation is a state of heightened awareness. When you try to meditate, there will likely be periods where you are lost in thought, and other times when you are fully aware in the present moment, meaning that you are fully conscious of what you are doing at that time. Whether you are focusing on your breath, observing thoughts, or simply resting in awareness, the sign of meditation is that you know what you are doing. In other words, you are not only watching the breath, but also aware that you are watching the breath. Meditative awareness can be practiced at all times. You simply need to be aware of whatever you are doing in the present moment. If you are driving to work, for example, you can pay attention to the road and your surroundings, but also maintain a heightened sense of awareness that you are driving. You can even do this while engaged in conversation, watching television, or working in front of a computer.


  • Thinking is a natural function of the mind; there is no need to stop thoughts from occurring. When you are meditating and you realize that you have been lost in thought, simply return your awareness to the object of your meditation. There is nothing more to it than that. You may even take your thoughts as the object of meditation, or rest in open awareness, letting thoughts come and go without paying too much attention to them. The key point is that thoughts and distraction are a natural part of meditation. As you grow more and more familiar with meditative awareness, thoughts will bother you less and less. You may even find that thoughts actually help your meditation, insofar as they are one more experience that you can use to expand your awareness.


  • Meditation allows us to be more aware and present in whatever activity we are doing. This has a beneficial impact on virtually every aspect of day to day life. In relationships, meditation will help us develop unconditional love that springs from a place of deep peace and serenity. At work, meditation will enable us to be more focused, creative, and efficient, while at the same time being emotionally balanced. In terms of health, meditation has been shown to have a dramatic impact on the physical body, including lowering stress levels, increasing immune system functioning, and increasing the capacity to cope with illness and chronic pain.